With my birth month approaching as I reach a new decade (or "level" as I prefer to think of it), I've got a lot on my mind. All the things I accomplished through now. All the things I haven't yet. And between the two, it made me think of what I can do to look ahead to set goals of fun experiences I can plan on doing as a decade-long "bucket list" so that hopefully by the time the next decade rolls around, I would have gotten to do some amazing things. It will be fun to look back on what I was able to finish!
Bucket List for My 40's:
1. Meet Sir Paul McCartney. Even better if I get a selfie with him!!! :-)
2. Go to my third Sir Paul McCartney concert. The first one I went to was ahhhh-mazing! (The second one needs a do-over, but I'd settle for a third chance instead! The music was great, but my mom ended up falling and spraining her ankle as we were leaving the venue.)
3. Attend a New England Patriots game at Gillette Stadium. (I've seen them play here in Indy, including for the Super Bowl, but never on their/my home turf!)
4. Visit Prince Edward Island. Makes sense since I'm a huge Anne of Green Gables fan.
5. Visit the Holy Land. A once-in-a-lifetime experience!
6. Write at least 10 books. (So far, I've written 1 novel, 1 novella, an e-book, 2 journals, and a short devotional.)
7. Stay at a B&B in Europe.
8. Go on a winery tour in Napa Valley.
9. Take a cruise. (anywhere!)
10. Trade-in my van for a Jeep. (I miss having one, now that we're not having to transport our daughter and her friends around to Girl Scouting events.) Through a series of unexpected events, this was achieved in June 2019!
11. Take a genealogy class.
12. Meet a relative for the first time. With our family all over the world, we have so many people I've yet to meet, and it would be fun to meet those I've only talked to via phone or email or chat, as well as those whom I've only known of. I finally got to meet my cousin's wife (March) , as well as my other cousin's granddaughter (August) in 2019.
13. Complete my family tree. (I still have a few gaps to fill in, but have accomplished TONS so far.)
14. Visit Disney Land. (We've been to Disney World a couple of times as a family, and while that's on my radar to go to again also, it would be fun to try something new!)
15. Take my husband and daughter on a trip to my hometown/home region. Having them see all the places I used to go to as a child would be great fun. :-)
16. Take my husband and daughter to visit my family in India. (Not as easy as it sounds, since my husband is hesitant to want to go, even though our daughter definitely is on board for that idea!)
17. Travel through Europe. Again, since my family lives everywhere, it would be nice to hit up places where they live and see them, but also go to some other locales we've long wanted to explore. Italy. Greece. Spain. Ireland. Scotland. Belgium. Monaco.
18. Live in our dream home. Where we are now is not where we want to grow old, and we have it in our mind's eye what we want it to look like.
19. Get a dog. (Yes, we have a sweet and adorable cat, but we would also like a dog whenever we have the room to have them co-exist, which unfortunately isn't feasible at the moment.) In March 2021 our cat passed away, and as of July 2021 we have a puppy!!!
20. See the Northern Lights.
21. Get braces. (Our daughter's smile is so lovely now that she's gone through the process; I never have them as a kid, but have needed them more and more the older I get.)
22. Have hot stone therapy/massage. I love massages already, but that would take things to another level of comfort for me! Courtesy of my parents, I enjoyed a lovely pedicure with hot stone massage and bonus chair massage in June 2019 :-)
23. Attend a ballet production of The Nutcracker.
24. Own a hardback copy of A Christmas Carol by Charles Dickens. (Not what you typically see in stores, but an older edition that's a little $$$.)
25. Have books written by me shelved at a bookstore. (So far, my work is available online to order with most booksellers, and otherwise can be ordered on Amazon, and is in circulation at the Indianapolis Public Library.) Accomplished this week (August 1, 2019) with The Gratitude Journal! More to come, all at 4 Kids Books and Toys!
26. Write a guest blog on a noted personality's website. A fellow author I read, or any sort of celebrity.
27. Achieve at least 10 book reviews for books written by me. (Why? Because it's a fact that authors with 10 or more reviews gain the most visibility - and since I'm an indie author, any little thing helps when marketing is all up to me to do.) Achieved on October 26, 2019 with A Place to Call Home!
28. Have a website I don't have to maintain and a publicist. Other than blogging myself, I'd love to have someone else maintain my website, add in my books, and advertise for me! Those are some of my least favorite things to do.
29. Convert one of my wedding photos into a large canvas to hang in our house. Would you believe we only have a couple of photos in small frames sitting on a shelf and that's about it?
30. Own a conch shell. (My mom had one when I was little, and I was fascinated to hold it up to my ear to "hear" the ocean in it.) I'm a lucky girl - not only did my best friend gift me one from North Carolina in time for my 40th birthday, but my Mother-in-law did too, thanks to my husband's cousin who obtained one from the Bahamas. I love both!
31. Have an anniversary band. I love the fact that I have two beautiful rings and that one of them was once my mother-in-law's. I also love my wedding ring, because it has my birthstone in it. BUT both rings have slowly started to weaken/flatten and could use a third ring to balance them out, plus it would be fun to have a third ring (nothing gaudy) that would have hubby's and our daughter's birthstones in it.
32. Do a radio interview.
33. Visit Australia.
34. Visit the San Diego Zoo. As a kid, I saw mention of zoos from around the world, and was intrigued by the SDZ and would love to check it out sometime.
35. Eat on the beach over an open fire at twilight. I don't care where, but that would cover the best of all things - fresh food, fresh air, ocean waves, fire, and my favorite time of day all rolled into one!
36. Own the full collection of Beatrix Potter books in hardback. It's something that reminds me of my childhood, with friends of ours who had a collection they let me read every time I visited, and I always vowed I would do the same but never even bought a single book yet! Got 'em all in 2019, thanks to my sweet Mother-in-law!
37. Visit all 50 states. I think at the time of writing this, I've made it to somewhere in the 20's, including some flyovers. But I'd like to actually VISIT somewhere in each state.
38. Attend a family reunion. There are a few parts of my family who host regular reunions on my dad's side and also my mother-in-law's, but we've never gone to any of them.
39. Plan or participate in a charity event or relief effort. (I've participated in a few toy drives, but that's about it.) Because of the pandemic of 2020, it was tough to accomplish public gatherings, but since that is also the year I began working for a non-profit social enterprise I've since been able to host a Barbie Doll Dress-Up Event and participate in a few community-wide relief efforts.
40. Have a book launch party! You'd think I would have already done so by now, but alas, I've not had the time or the funds to put forth such a thing. It would be great fun to plan one out, though, and do book signings and giveaways, etc.
So there you have it. My list of 40 things. It wasn't as easy to put together as I thought it would be, either! I actually had to sit and really think about what I would want to accomplish, as my immediate list came to only a handful of experiences. But the more I thought about it, more things came to mind - things I hadn't thought about in years, but was glad I did today. Now that you know my list, what's on yours?
